Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love.
~Mildred B. Vermont
this year's mother's day is really special to me because for the past 1 year and 2 months, I have been a fulltime mom. 7 months with a yaya and 7 months, all by myself. I'm glad I got this job.
a candid photo of my mom and Ethan at his Christening
one of my favorite photos of me and Ethan, during our San Francisco vacay in October 2007 (magkamukha kasi kami dito)
Share your favorite Mother’s Day quotes and place your blog/name right after the piece of artwork.
1. Irresistible Fascinations / Naomi 2. Manna from Heaven/Lena 3.And Life Goes On/Lena 4. Mommyallehs up-close and personal/mommyallehs 5. Confessions of a Supermodel Wannabe 6. Me,Myself+2 7. My life in this Wonderful World 8. All Things Me 9. Because Life is Fun 10. mind bubbles 11. Vanity Kit 12. A Detour 13. Something Purple 14. (YOUR LINK HERE)
Tagging: Abie, Farah, Meeya, Tin, Mel, Maver, May, Jane, Jacqui, Juliet, Quel and Weng.
I could spend many days listing the things on what I love about my husband, Titan. He is not a perfect husband but he is the closest thing to perfection. We had our rounds of bad days but at the end of the day, I realize I am in the best position being his wife, really. Now, I understand why my Mom wanted me to marry him even if he is my 1st and only boyfriend at that time LOL! For the lack of time, I will try to list every little thing that I love about him, just anything that pops out of my mind. I am on time limit here as I have tons of assignments to do, both in blogging and in school. (will try to add more on this entry when I remember something else)
♥ I love him because he is my 1st and only boyfriend but I got to experience everything that a girl can experience with having plenty of boyfriends, ano yun? Go figure LOL!
♥ I love him because he TAUGHT me everything I need to survive in life and brought me to every wild place and adventure. He is a survivor.
♥ I love him because we share the same comments and quirks when we admire or despise people hahahah!
♥ I love him for giving me the wedding of my dreams, every single detail bit of it.
♥ He is the father of my poging anak and I love him because he gave him good genes, both physically and attitude-wise.
♥ He gives me massages when I need them.
♥ I love him because he loves my friends, he is even closer to some of them than I could ever be.
♥ I love him for always cooking for me and my son the best breakfast in the world every morning.
♥ I love him for being the most selfless person that he is, he would spend all his earnings to his family and forget all about his wants and desires.
♥ He always tell me how hot I am as a mom but never stops to remind me when bulges are popping out, mostly in my tummy and hip that I need to do something about them.
♥ He adores my face even early in the morning or late at night hahah! and my purt little nose hahah!
♥ I love him because he fixes Ethan's all sorts of mess ALL THE TIME!
♥ I love him for bringing chips and ice cream for me once a week.
♥ I love him for making our life comfortable.
♥ I love him for loving my family especially my mom.
♥ For being the best fashion critique that he is when buying my clothes and bags are concerned.
♥ For telling me how good a cook I am even if you know that my cooking sometimes sucks LOL!
♥ For sharing housechores with me no matter how tired he is from work.
♥ The 1st thing he does when he arrives home is take care of Ethan, because he knows how tiring my day was, I love him for that.
♥ He checks opps for me when I need to do something else haha!
♥ He pays for my credit cards ahihihi!
♥ He treats me like a baby and also treats me as his matured wife depending on the circumstance.
♥ He never fails to give me flowers in every occassion, sana bag na this time LOL!
♥ For always saying sorry even if it was my fault.
♥ There will only be 1 Tristan Cesar and that's my Titan.
♥ ...to be continued, time is up hee.
tagging: TIN, IRMA, VAL, MEL, JOY and MAVER.
Here’s the drill started by Mitch of When Silence Speaks:
If you still keep your baby’s first 3 days photos, We would love to see them. Label them as 1st, 2nd or 3rd day (as shown below). After that, please post the most recent one, one photo will do. You can post as much as you want though. I’m sure you will realize and tell yourself “seems like yesterday“.
Well. I do. I actually have an online album for all his photos: http://fotop.net/ethanxavier. A couple of mom said to me that my son is lucky to have me as their mom because I keep all his milestones in a journal and a photowebsite. This is a project I intend to carry till my son (and his future sister) tell me to stop.
Fresh from the Oven. Day ONE. Less than a few seconds from the CS op, his baba took this photo of him and that big man there is my ever-good Ob Gyne, Dr. Martin Manahan.
Day TWO. 1st sight of his chickboyness!
Day THREE. Mamy Tata brought him home. We were checked out on the 3rd day even with a CS.
♥NOW♥
His first Autumn in San Francisco, all smiles.
Enjoying winter in Washington, DC. Very Excited.
Can't wait for Springtime in Virginia. Needs a Haircut.
Cut and paste the following starting here.
I have randomly selected 5 of you below to be tagged and I hope that you will similarly publish this post in your blog. You will have to tag 5 other bloggers and just keep adding on to the list. (Do not replace, just keep on adding! Yes we hope it will be a long list!)It’s real easy! Tag others and see your Technorati Authority increase exponentially!
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I am tagging Juliana, Lizz, Jesse, Valerie, Farah, Anna, Jacqui, Mich, Vina, Dez, Juliet, and Sheryll! Increase your PR girls.
Rules:
1. Post YOUR photo wearing red, may it be a red top, bottom, the least would be red accessories if you hate wearing red… If you can’t find one, you still have an option…. Either post your Significant Other’s photo or your child’s photo, if you have one. Of course, they should be wearing red.
2. Let us know the reason why you were wearing red that particular day. Was it your birthday? Is red your favorite color or was it the shirt that you first saw in your closet that day?
3. Tag 3 people close to your heart. By the way, they have to be in your blogroll. No cheating heart please!
4. Once you’re tagged, could we please keep it going - just for this month?
Contrary to popular belief, I have reds in my closet and it's not just purely a collection of purple shades LOL! Though, I clearly remembered how inis I was when my mom let me wore a bloody red dress during my College Graduation, it turned out, I had fabulous pictures. I love red, it's a lucky color, it makes my skin glow and I look more white. It's nice in pictures, that's why Ethan has sooo many red shirts/jackets.
Here are photos of me and my family wearing RED! Snag this tag away if you feel like wearing red.
I wore a red Bayo top during our pre-nups!
A red Topshop blouse while having dinner with my bestfriend, tet with balikbayan friend, che.
I wore a red TH jacket while visiting Napa Valley.
This red Guess tie-dyed sleeveless top during our honeymoon in Chiang Mai, Thailand, ang liit ko lol!
lastly, photos of my son wearing red jackets!
How time flies my son is turning 3 this May 1. Hubby and I were talking last night while we were watching Ethan doing his monologue and we were amazed by how fast time really flies. Anyhoo, just to reminisce his 1st few days with us, here's a photo to help me introduce the tag.
8 Random Things About Ethan: (with some contribution from hubby)
1) Even when I was just conceiving him, he was one energetic fetus! He was sooo movable! My friends and family were witnesses how movable he was as his actions (read:kicks and stretches) were evident in my bulging tummy.
2) He was food poisoned before he turned 1! The expired gerber came from one of his pediatricians tsk tsk.
3) He started calling me Mama at barely 4 months.
4) His memory is awesome! So don't dare not speak bad words in front of him as he will surely say it over and over again with matching: like grandpa (or whoever said it LOL) , grandpa said etc...
5) He knows every characters in every DVD he watches. He also memorizes the chronological order of every scene.
6) He draws his circle, square, diamond, rectangle and star in the air with his finger, this I gotta take a video and blog it here.
7) He still remembers every little thing he does in the Philippines as well as all the people he lived with and played with there.
8) At barely 3 years old, he's a big help in the housechores. He can sweep the floor, vaccuums, washes the dishes, wipes the furnitures, puts dishes in the sink, sorts laundry etc...and knows how to call 911!
you can follow his stories here: My Sunshine named Ethan Xavier.
and his growing up photos here: Ethan Xavier's Web album, Watch Him Grow!
I am tagging, Jane's Sophia, Joy's Aidan, Abie's Bela, Farah's Lizzie, Jacqui's Sam, Alpha's Estong, Peachy's Joaquin, Weng's Abby, Tin's Amelie, Mickee's Khail, Quel's Jeg, Juliet's Kurt, Jody's Bianca and Margaux.
Thanks mucho to everyone who frequently visit my site. Last week, my PR was raised to 3, but I need to establish that constantly as when I checked it today, it is back to PR2+ again. You know what PR 3+ means to me, more OPPS, more moolah, more entries! toodles. xoxo.
1)respect for parents.
2)fear of God.
3)strive for excellence.
4)help others.
5)patience.
mine are:
1) I want my kids to know that their family is always here for them, in good and in bad times. No matter how grievous deed they made, they can always come back home.
2) I want my kids to know that everytime I punish, ignore or scold them, it's for their own good. If they're hurting, much more us, as their parrents.
3) I want them to know the value of money and education.
4) I want them to know that eventhough we tried to give them the best, they cannot have everything they want.
5) I want them to know that there is a God who is the reason for our everything.
I was tagged by Jane. It's so hard to think of only 8 things to be grateful for as there are a lot I can think of. But I'll try to narrow them down to the top 8 things that popped in my head:
1.) First off, I'm grateful for Jane for tagging me into this. Because like her, I tend to overlook some of my blessings and gets whiny most of the time hahah! How ungrateful! This tag would somehow remind me of how lucky I am now, to start counting my blessings and just stop complaining and worrying.
2.) I'm grateful for my family, my mom, my dad and my two brothers, my loving in-laws, husband and son. I know I can always count on them when everything else turn down on me. I'm really really grateful for such loving and beautiful family.
3.) I'd like to cite my husband solely. I am grateful for him coming into my life. He has given me sooo many things and made me happy all the time. Despite my lack of maturity, he has always been patient of me. He thinks of me more than himself and more than anyone and anything else. Eventhough he's tired from work, I am the one who gets to be pampered at night with massage and the likes. Spoiled to death talaga ako.
4.) I am grateful for my friends. They keep me both insane and sane. I'm blessed with a big circle of real good friends. My bestfriend Tetet and Joanne, my MG family with 3 adorable gay friends whom I spent 7 happy and crazy years at the Canadian Embassy (chingkee, mia, val, mishel, flery, ging, harold, jasper and mother michelle), my ultimate chikadora friends (wifespeakers), my gorgeous highschool friends (farah, stelz, lei, jetjet, cheche, etc... they're just too many to mention), my fab college friends (chelle, may and all those whom I still keep in touch), closest friends whom I can talk anything and everything under the sun(like joy, cheryl, irma, kathy, icee friends), my hubby's buddies (kirl, gio, rommel, jeno, andeng, etc...), all my other friends whom I cannot include in any of the categories mentioned, and my blogging buddies, you know who you are, you make blogging sooo muh fun!
5.) I am grateful for having able to indulge in one extreme hobby, that of scubadiving and for the places I've seen and travelled (Hongkong, China, Thailand, Boracay, Cebu, Bohol, Iloilo, Bacolod, Anilao, Subic, Bicol, Mount Banahaw, L.A., Napa Valley, San Francisco, Las Vegas, Philly, Virginia, Washington D.C. etc...). I'm still looking forward to spending some time with my bestfriend, Tetet in Canada, a 2nd honeymoon with my hubby in Europe, a shopping adventure with my MG family in Vietnam and Singapore and backpack with them in Palawan, skinny dip in Maldives with all my crazy friends I've mentioned in #4, Surprising my Son and his future sibling by bringing him to all the Disneylands in the World before he turns 12, Explore Japan, Australia, Johannesburg, South Africa and Alaska with my folks and brothers.
6.) I am grateful for my skill and self-taught talent in Make-Up, I find ultimate joy enhancing people's features and showing my artistic side at photoshoots.
7.) I am grateful for this opportunity to live in a different country. It was a big risk and the transition was hard, we are still on the process of being fully stable but I am glad to be at this state now. I have learned so much from this move and my small young family has never been this close and strong. Ika nga ni KC Concepcion on her From Paris to Pinas show, never ever allow yourself to be too comfortable at one place, because when you forego of all the conveniences in your life, that's when you challenge yourself, you mature, you grow, you improve, and that's where you learn who you truly are. Keep moving, keep improving. Change is always good. When things and place become very convenient for you, there is definitely no room for growth.
8.) I am grateful for my faith. I am glad that I was brought up to believe on heaven and hell. I am extremely blessed for the big man up there who gave us an adorable son and for always being there for me 24/7.
I am tagging meeya, jen, ela, joy, juliet, cynch, cata, cez, jacqui, weng, and denoy.
- vista:
blessed...very.
and suddenly an angel in the person of Nyree granted my wish HERE!
After much anticipation it is now on my own hands. Read the arrival story here. This will be my new bestfriend next to my laptop because things I don't write in my 2 blogs will be placed here. Oh yes my life is not an ultra open book if that's what you think, especially after my mom has cautioned me of identity theft lol! as if!
“Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence.” - Og Mandino
- environs:In my Solace.
- vista:positive!
- chants:Unwritten
here goes:
Make a paragraph or two regarding your personal meaning of Christmas, below the paragraph of the one who tagged you and you may put your name at the end of the paragraph linking back to your blog or right to the post of this particular tag. Then you tag as many as you can
Start copy here:
Christmas for me is the ultimate reminder on how much God loves us, that He gave His only Son Jesus Christ to be our Savior. For me, its a celebration of love and a time to share our blessings to others.. a time for giving and reaching out to the less fortunate and it's also a wonderful time to be with your family. Christmas is not just all about santa claus or the gifts that you will receive or for shopping, we should always remember that Jesus is the reason for the season and let us reflect on how much God loves us. - Just Let Go
/Pieces of Me
Christmas is about giving love, forgiving. This remind us how lucky and how God love us when he gave us his only son Jesus Christ. A time for sharing our blessing to our family, friends and to others. - Celebrate Life
/My Journey
. Christmas for me is not the new things that we have and enjoying the bounties in life but remembering that someone is born to redeem us from our sins and making sure of our salvation Teebob
. The true meaning of christmas for me is sharing, giving, expressing love to one another, and remebering that there is one person up there, who is born on the 25th of december to save us from everything . A lot of people told me that christmas is for kids. yes, it's true but I prefer to say that christmas is for everybody and sharing love to one another is the keyword remeber, "you can give without loving but you can't love without giving ". Alaverde33
. As the word Christmas itself convey, this day is the celebration of Christ. It's his day since this is the day we celebrate his birthday. Everything we do on this day should be in his honor...just like we get the honor when we celebrate our birthdays. So do what you normally do on this day but remember to give the honor to the celebrant himself, Christ. Juliana of Pinay Wahm
and Teacher's Corner
Christmas for me is a time for selflessness. Its a time to reach out to family and friends in the spirit of peace and humility. Christmas is also for every child and the child in every grown up. More than receiving, its a wonderful thing to give this season. Giving doesn't have to be in the form of material things, but most importantly its the gift of time and unconditional love that counts. Indeed, Christ is the reason for this season.... - Abby of Mom And The City
Christmas for me is counting our blessings for the year that was and sharing every blessing we have to our loved ones. And most of all Christmas is for thanking Christ for giving us his only life. Christmas is beyond gift giving and more of love, forgiveness and prayers. - Something Purple
...and for all my blogging buddies mentioned above, I'm passing on this little christmas pup gift for you. This pup so deserves a warm, cozy home and welcome.
INSTRUCTION:
1. Posts 5 links to 5 of your previously written posts. The posts have to relate to the 5 key words given below.
2. Tag 5 other friends to do this meme. Try to tag at least 2 new acquaintances (if not, your current blog buddies will do) so that you get to know them each a little bit better.
3. Don’t forget to read the archived post and leave comments.
Link 1 must be about FAMILY : A Thanksgiving Entry
Link 2 must be about FRIEND : Mia's Christmas Card Surprise!
Link 3 must be about YOURSELF : My Moolah Generating Sources
Link 4 must be about YOUR LOVE : Hubby's Black Friday Loot for Me
Link 5 can be ANYTHING YOU LIKE : All of my California-Vegas Stories
5 Things from Mel:
5 Things Found In My Bag
– cellphone
– wallet with some bills and cards
– coin purse
– make-up kit
– ipod video
5 Things Found In My Wallet
– credit cards
– ATM cards
– some bills
- license (driving and scubadiving)
– receipts
5 Things Found In My Room
– bed
– lamp
– laptop
– TV
– ethan's toys
5 Things I’ve Always Wanted To Do
– drive around
– spend a looong weekend with titan and ethan
– treat myself for some manicure/pedicure and massage (which is very expensive here!)
– shop nonstop in Sephora and Forever 21 (babaw!)
– own a house
5 Things I’m Currently Into
– blogging
– setting an appointment with titan's lawyer
– saving money
- downloading music to my ipod
– thinking of new meals for ethan
5 People to Tag for This Meme
- jen
- meeya
- joy
- che
- cez
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Linky Love Chain from Alpha and Jane:
When you get tagged, you have to add your name next to the person who tagged you and by doing so you are letting the list grow.
Limadang.com
RamblingMoo.com
blogginginmypyjamas
StylewithPassion
Chinneeq
Dora-zooropazoo
Babyshern
HiPnCooLMoMMa
Rachel’s Soulful Thoughts
When Silence Speaks
My Love. My life. My everything.
Our Journey as a Family
Our Journey to Life
Dancing in Midlife Tune
Underneath it All
My Charmed Life
Blueberry Cheesecake
Underneath it All
I am Dzoi
Alpha’s Blog
My Joys
Something Purple
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Ronito Ronita from Abie
It is December once again, the perfect time to extend our greetings to everyone in the blogosphere and unite for a common purpose: to enjoy life within the cyberspace.
So let’s give ourselves a break to go round and meet other bloggers, be the e-Santa Claus.
*** COPY STARTS HERE ***
How to Join?
[1] Fill up and submit the details of this form.
[2]Copy and post the rules to your blog. Include the “backward list” (a record of how the tag reached you) and add your name.
[3] Recruit for participants. Be sure to get their consent.
Should they agree to join, add them to your “forward list” (bloggers you’ve convinced to join).
Remind them to do item #1.
** Participants will be accepted until December 16 (Phil. time) only. On December 17, the organizer will email to you the details of your Ronito/Ronita. Send him/her a Christmas greeting via E-cards preferably on December 25.
Should time be a constraint, you can send it earlier.
My Backward Link List:
iRonnie , jeff, bluepanjeet, thess ,GBex , Liza, Liza 2, Rems, Eds, Abie, Aggie,Apols, Jane, Jody, Jacqui, Jesse, Kelly, Kitts, Mich, Thea, Nice, Peachy & Pheng
- add your name here: Em
I want to extend the spirit of Christmas to all of my blogging buddies out there!
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and Lastly, A Be The Blog Award from Abie! Thanks again my dearie! toodles.
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First of The Treasuring-friendships-made-online Award/Tag, thanks for this abie! I know from the start I met you in the Canadian Embassy that I found a friend in you and I'm glad that we're still in touch, thanks to blogging. I've known her for more than 5 years now and I know our friendship is for keeps. Our friendship is definitely beyond online friendship. I'm looking forward to seeing you, howell and bela anytime soon! I'm passing this on to my new found friends in blogging, looking forward to getting to know you more in the days to come: jane (by the way parang likod ni sophie yung girl dito hahah!), jacqui, and weng.
Second the Question Tag:
What is the most memorable thing that your daughter/son has done for you?
A lot, really. Just by being him, that's memorable. But one thing that struck me the most is whenever I lost my patience on his mischievousness since we got here and yayaless, and after turning into HIS monster mom (LOL!), all he did was hug me tight and give me a tap on the back. That's really something! And everytime I lay down my hair he would caress it with his tiny little fingers, smile and look at me and say "hmmm bango mommy, ganda mommy", nothing else matters!
And now for my question, to my overseas blogging friends: Cata, Tin, Meeya, Weng, Joy and Ela. What was the hardest part in your immigration that made you want to go back to the Philippines?
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And LAST, The Birthday Month Tag:
1. Mention the person who tagged you and create a link back to them.
2. Copy-paste the traits for all the twelve months (see below). <